Friday, June 26, 2020

"SLUT-SHAMING"

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What is the meaning of Slut?

A word used for a woman who is indulged in casual sexual activities or who behaves and dresses in a very sexual way. 
The people who call a woman slut have any idea what is the backstory or what is she going through.
Does anyone even know the true meaning of this word?
If a girl is found with  3-4 boys in the market, she is called a slut.
Simultaneously, when a boy does the same thing, "oh wow! what a stud.!"
There's no male word for"Slut" because society does not judge men for how many sexual relations they have,
If a girl loses her virginity before marriage, " what a slut".
No one understands how this word can have a life-long impact on someone's life.

Who calls a girl a slut? Someone who is either jealous of her or cannot have her.
These people then try to insult the girl and spread false rumors for her. And the worst part is everyone believes it without knowing the truth.
She wears short clothes - SLUT
Parties at night - SLUT
Have more male friends - SLUT


20 Ways People Slut Shame Rape Victims | Teen Vogue If a girl wears short clothes, is frank or is cool, that doesn't mean she is asking for it. And if a girl is being raped, what does she hear?  "Why were you alone at night?" "You should wear decent clothes" etc. Why? Why can't men control their feelings? 
 Why do only we are taught to behave and not the men to control?.

I want to share my personal experience. I was in 11th grade when this happened. A guy in my locality starting following me, texting and all. Obviously, I was not interested and this made him angry. What he did was he started spreading rumors that he has my nude pics and that I am a "slut". Everyone started looking at me with disgust and the boys tried to text me or tried to make a move on me as they thought that I am easy to get. Without even knowing the truth, they just believed it and calling me Slut too. This had a huge impact on me and broke me inside. But we have to move on and be strong.

People are always desperate to interfere in other's lives, try o spread rumors and gossips without even realizing how badly this can affect one's life. We all are the children of God and have equal rights as men. No one has the right to judge us.   
STOP JUDGING AND GROW UP!    Image result for stop judging

  

8 comments:

  1. Amazing content quality with a great social message, keep up with this good work

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  2. Great work ammy keep going we are allways with you

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  3. You are doing a great job.I can't even think it's your first article.Keep going ahead like this..

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  4. Absolutely right and very well written. Keel it up

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  5. Wow wow I could feel the emotions as you write this. As a woman I understand and it's nice to have someone write this sooo beautifully. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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  6. Very mature thinking 💭 👌👌

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  7. All men should respect female gender. They should understand, that this gender has given them birth. Girls, be brave. You are the most beautiful thing ever happened to this universe. The beautiful god's creation.

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